Changes.
We all dread changes; whether big or small, painful or relaxing,
of past or present- we dread them. We are at home, we don’t want to leave for
work; once at work, we don’t want to go home. In pajamas, we think twice
changing for a party; after the party, you don’t want to get back to pajamas.
In peace, we hate noise; being in noise, we learn to enjoy it. As a child you want to grow up; when finally
you are a grown up, you want to be a child again.
Ever thought why we
fear losing our friends? Because then we’ll have to make new ones. We’ll have
new people in our lives- a change. Moreover, as soon as someone starts giving clarification
for their action, we stop them. Because then, we will have to change what we
have already made up in our mind. Whether we realize it or not; whether we
accept it or not. A part of us always wants everything to be the same-the
people around us (whether we like them or not), the circumstances (good or
bad).. Even when we say ‘I want a change’!
Well, inertia in
science is what is responsible for it. We are not to be blamed. Now, here the
decision is for us to make. Either let inertia rule your life or you rule it
yourself. All we can do is accept the change as it comes, with a clear heart
and open arms. After all, the only thing that is constant is change.
"We’ll have new people in our lives- a change" irony is that you accept the change and mould yourself to live with it
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